Being Free Together Counseling

Move towards love ​and truth

  • Freedom
  • Authenticity
  • Honesty
  • Connection


  • Clarity
  • Peace
  • Integrity
  • Compassion


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More About Me

A warm welcome to my site, I am so glad you’ve been led here. I'm ​Graham, I live between Northampton, Massachusetts, and Austin, ​Texas. I am devoted to helping you find a sense of home in your ​body, mind, community, and life. I will support you in finding an ec​ology of practices that allow you to adapt to changing conditions, se​e the details and big picture, remain connected to your au​thenticity, and maintain a radiant, thriving aliveness. I’ve been co​llecting and integrating practices from therapeutic, relational, and sp​iritual traditions. I incorporate these all into my work and have ​witnessed the powerful and transformative effects they can have. I ​would be honored to share them with you. My work is trauma-​informed and shaped by modalities like Internal Family Systems, ​Compassionate Inquiry, Somatic Experiencing, and Non-Violent ​communication. I focus on cultivating deep safety, intimate embodim​ent through serious play​,​ and radical authenticity.


I take great joy in the opportunity to h​elp people see themselves and the world more clearly, feel free from il​lusory limitations, and make harmonious decisions. Through my pr​actice, Being Free Together, I create a safe environment where we ​can be guided by truth and love, and ultimately, be f​r​ee together.


Testimony

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Graham brings a deep presence to every conversation. He has a special ​way of listening between the lines, fueled by his own self-understanding, ​that’s incredibly supportive toward self-discovery and acceptance. I leave ​our conversations with a renewed sense that my experiences are real and ​worthy of attention, and that I am capable of meeting myself and growing.

Lili

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My life, like anyone's, has seen its share of turbulence and suffering. I've ​faced a range of difficult experiences, from opiate addiction to psychosis. ​During these challenging times, Graham has been a sanctuary for me ​when others felt too difficult to approach. His own story and willingness ​to share his experiences have guided me through some of my most ​challenging moments. His understanding and empathy shine through in ​the authentic person he is. Through Graham's calming presence and his ​graceful acceptance of others, regardless of their story, I have found ​inspiration, help, and love.

Joshua

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Graham transformed my scattered enthusiasm into a cohesive dream. ​Through his integrative approach, combining professional guidance, ​psychedelic, and spiritual interventions, he addressed my spiritual, ​professional, and personal needs. With his support, I relocated to a new ​city, integrated into a network of like-minded professionals, and obtained ​a Master’s Degree in my chosen field within 18 months. Graham’s ​ceaseless compassion, wisdom, and practical mindset empower those ​with both specific and abstract needs to take action.


He instilled in me the importance of community, self-trust, and self-​forgiveness. His guidance was pivotal as I navigated new challenges, from ​writing a musical in a coffee shop to applying for universities and ​exploring psychedelic therapy. Graham’s ability to blend methods to meet ​the unique needs of each individual makes him an invaluable guide on ​any journey.

Carl

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Thanks to Graham, I gained access to an inner world that has blown me ​away with it’s beauty and intricacy. I am a more powerful and integrated ​person because of him. He is someone I want to call to celebrate with ​and to complain to. A combination of silly and serious that goes beneath ​the heart and mind and touches the spirit. He respects me and my parts, ​and his own, and I feel safer with him than with almost anyone else. You ​can love him, you can trust him, and you’ll be glad you did after the fact. ​Nothing in the world seems impossible when he is in his element.


Gabriel


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While working with my husband and me, I was in awe of how quickly ​Graham was able to disarm any defensiveness and hold space for our ​conflict almost immediately on our first meeting. He was fully present, ​able to navigate to the core of our issue and help us communicate ​effectively to one another in a way we weren’t able to find on our own. ​I’ve seen many different therapists over my life. Having a partner in ​health as effective as Graham is truly a gift to all couples and ​individuals alike.

Jeanne

Being Free Together Counseling

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Telephone: (413) 387-3526


grahampilger@gmail.com