Men and ​Masculinity

“True humility, we believe, consists of two things. The ​first is knowing our limitations. And the second is ​getting the help we need.”-Robert Moore

Embodying Authentic Masculinity: A 12-week online transformational container for men


Redefine Strength. Cultivate Virtue. Lead with Integrity.

At Being Free Together, we believe in the power of authentic, balanced, and virtuous masculinity. Our transformative counseling program, ​Embodying Authentic Masculinity, is designed to help men like you cultivate and embody the virtues essential to a fulfilling and impactful ​life.


Why Join Embodying Authentic Masculinity?

In today’s world, men are often caught between outdated stereotypes and modern expectations. True strength lies not in conforming to ​these pressures but in developing a character rooted in integrity, compassion, and resilience. There is a hero’s journey available to us all but ​all too often our growth is stunted by fears about picking up the sword and confronting the dragons in front of us. Our program offers a ​structured yet flexible approach to personal growth, helping you redefine what it means to be a man in a way that feels deeply authentic ​and empowering.


Navigating Life’s Roles and Expectations

As men, we find ourselves juggling various roles—son, father, brother, lover, husband, boyfriend—all while contending with societal ​obligations and “shoulds.” This program is designed to help you balance these roles with a deep sense of what is good and right, rooted in ​your own values and convictions.


Exploring the Shadows

A key element of our program is deep shadow work, where you will examine the parts of yourself that are hard to look at and acknowledge ​both the dark shadow and the golden shadow of your unrealized positive potential. This process is essential for authentic self-discovery and ​growth, allowing you to confront and integrate these aspects of yourself into a balanced and whole identity.


King, Warrior, Magician, Lover Archetypes

Our program is divided into four legs, each focusing on one of the key archetypes to provide a comprehensive framework for understanding ​and embodying healthy masculinity:

Leg 1: The King

  • Focus: Leadership, Responsibility, Purpose
  • Key Themes: Vision, inspiration, dignity, balance, integrity.
  • Practices: Developing leadership skills, aligning actions with values, fostering a sense of purpose, understanding the impact of your ​decisions on others.
  • Shadow Work: Addressing issues of control, arrogance, and abdication of responsibility.

Leg 2: The Warrior

  • Focus: Courage, Discipline, Resilience
  • Key Themes: Strength, protection, decisiveness, perseverance.
  • Practices: Building physical and mental resilience, setting boundaries, protecting what is valuable, taking decisive action.
  • Shadow Work: Confronting aggression, recklessness, and avoidance of conflict.

Leg 3: The Magician

  • Focus: Wisdom, Insight, Creativity
  • Key Themes: Knowledge, intuition, transformation, continuous learning.
  • Practices: Enhancing wisdom and insight, fostering creativity and innovation, deepening self-awareness, exploring spiritual practices.
  • Shadow Work: Addressing manipulation, detachment, and misuse of knowledge.

Leg 4: The Lover

  • Focus: Empathy, Compassion, Connection
  • Key Themes: Relationship, passion, beauty, emotional depth.
  • Practices: Deepening empathy and compassion, nurturing relationships, embracing vulnerability, appreciating the beauty of life.
  • Shadow Work: Confronting dependency, hedonism, and emotional withdrawal.


Building Brotherhood and Connection

Increasingly, men face isolation and overwhelming burdens without the necessary support, encouragement, and brotherhood. Many carry ​these loads alone, feeling disconnected and unsupported. Embodying Authentic Masculinity aims to provide a space where men receive the ​feedback, support, praise, and celebration they need to flourish and blossom into productive, loving, powerful, and good beings.


What You’ll Gain:

  • Integrity and Authenticity: Align your actions with your values and embrace your true self.
  • Strength and Resilience: Develop mental and emotional resilience to face life’s challenges with courage.
  • Kindness and Compassion: Cultivate empathy and build meaningful, compassionate relationships.
  • Temperance and Self-Control: Master self-discipline and achieve balance in your life.
  • Honor and Responsibility: Embrace your responsibilities with dignity and respect.
  • Wisdom and Insight: Enhance your self-awareness and decision-making capabilities.


Holistic Focus

Our program goes beyond individual virtues to encompass all aspects of life. We focus on improving your romantic and platonic ​relationships, advancing your career, enhancing your health, deepening your spirituality, understanding your personal story, and navigating ​developmental stages.


Program Structure:

Our 12-week program combines personalized counseling, group workshops, and ongoing support to ensure a holistic and impactful journey:

  • Weekly Group Workshops: Engage in discussions and activities that foster community and mutual support across various life aspects.
  • Monthly Counseling Sessions: Focus on specific virtues, reflective inquiry, and actionable steps, including shadow work and relationship ​dynamics.
  • Accountability and Support: Access a private online community and pair up with accountability partners.


Who Should Join?

Embodying Authentic Masculinity is for adult men committed to personal growth and transformation. Whether you’re looking to deepen ​your relationships, enhance your leadership skills, or simply embody a more authentic version of yourself, this program is for you.


Enrollment Details:

  • Duration: 12 weeks
  • Standard Pricing: $1500
  • Premium Pricing: $2000 (includes additional one-on-one counseling sessions)
  • Scholarships and Sliding Scale Options Available


Take the First Step Towards Authentic Masculinity


Join us on this transformative journey and redefine what it means to be a strong, compassionate, and honorable man. Together, let’s build a ​world where men can thrive authentically and lead with integrity.


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